
Hello everone, it is your host Sevina Altanova.
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Statistics show that every 40 seconds someone dies by suicide. The pandemic has shown a higher rate of the usage of suicide hotlines, around 300% of an increase.
We should put our mental health at the center of our well-being and make it a priority!
www.StressManagementResources.com (look for the free meditation)
The articles below will help you do that.
Namaste!
The Power of Meditation
By Sevina Altanova

Meditation is a 5000-year-old practice of self-healing.
People do meditation to maintain health, heal their bodies, calm their minds, and reconnect with their spirit. When you meditate you raise yourself to a higher level of perception and functioning!
11 Science-Based Benefits of Meditation
- Reduces Stress
Many styles of meditation can help reduce stress. Meditation can also reduce symptoms in people with stress-triggered medical conditions.
- Controls Anxiety
Habitual meditation helps reduce anxiety and anxiety-related mental health issues like social anxiety, phobias and obsessive-compulsive behaviors.
- Promotes Emotional Health
Some forms of meditation can improve depression and create a more positive outlook on life.
- Enhances Self-Awareness
Self-inquiry and related styles of meditation can help you “know yourself.” This can be a starting point for making other positive changes.
- Lengthens Attention Span
Several types of meditation may build your ability to redirect and maintain attention. As little as four days of meditation may have an effect.
- May Reduce Age-Related Memory Loss
The improved focus you can gain through regular meditation may increase memory and mental clarity. These benefits can help fight age-related memory loss and dementia.
- Can Generate Kindness
Metta, or loving-kindness meditation, is a practice of developing positive feelings, first toward yourself and then toward others. Metta increases positivity, empathy and compassionate behavior toward others.
- May Help Fight Addictions
Meditation develops mental discipline and willpower and can help you avoid triggers for unwanted impulses. This can help you recover from addiction, lose weight and redirect other unwanted habits.
- Improves Sleep
A variety of meditation techniques can help you relax and control the “runaway” thoughts that can interfere with sleep. This can shorten the time it takes to fall asleep and increase sleep quality.
- Helps Control Pain
Meditation can diminish the perception of pain in the brain. This may help treat chronic pain when used as a supplement to medical care or physical therapy.
- Can Decrease Blood Pressure
Blood pressure decreases not only during meditation, but also over time in individuals who meditate regularly. This can reduce strain on the heart and arteries, helping prevent heart disease.
Please use our Free Meditation – For the restoration of physical and emotional well-being. https://stressmanagementresources.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Free-Meditation-End-of-life-Meditation.mp3
We recommend you use headphones to listen to the meditation.
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Links to preview the meditations:
“Anxiety Relieve” Relaxation/Meditation
“Overcoming Panic Attack” Relaxation/Meditation
“Clearing Chakras” Relaxation/Meditation
“Gamma Light/Sound” Relaxation/Meditation
Anxiety Relief Relaxation
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Relaxation for Overcoming a Panic Attack
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Clearing Chakras Relaxation
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Alzheimer’s Disease Therapy with Combination of 40Hz Light and Sound
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Time for a Body, Mind, and Spirit Cleanse
By Roger Gabriel

The change of season, whether you’re moving from winter to spring or summer into autumn, is always a good time to reassess your life and clear out what no longer serves, making way for new exciting opportunities to enter. This can be done on all levels, physical, mental, and spiritual.
Physical
The physical includes both the inner and outer. Starting on the outer, when did you last check what’s at the back of your closet? Do you have a garage or storage space that’s bursting at the seams? How cluttered is your workspace? Maybe it’s time to let go of a few things. If a major purge is too much for you, make a commitment that you’re going to throw or give away at least one thing every day from now on. Don’t worry, just think of the wonderful new things with which you can replace them.
Keeping the body healthy and vital is important for everyday activities but, remember it is also the vehicle that carries us on our spiritual journey. In India, many people use this time of change to undergo the Ayurvedic treatment known as Panchakarma or five actions. This program traditionally lasts for three weeks and is a flushing out of the toxins and imbalances accumulated during the previous season. It always concludes with a period of rejuvenation therapy, so the squeaky-clean recipient is ready to fully enjoy the season ahead. While most of us won’t be able to indulge ourselves to that degree, please consider taking a few days of cleansing for your body.
Nowadays, there’s a whole range of at-home detox programs available to us. Find one that’s comfortable for you or create your own. Here’s a simple suggestion you could follow for 3-5 days, preferably when not working:
- Start the day with a glass of warm water and lemon juice, drink lots of room temperature water throughout the day.
- Have a light breakfast, maybe a green smoothie and or fruit, avoid caffeine.
- Make lunch your main meal with lots of colorful vegetables, eat the rainbow.
- Avoid processed and packaged foods and heavy proteins, minimize sugars.
- Get some light exercise such as walking, yogic stretching.
- Eat an early, light dinner.
- Do some form of meditation twice daily.
- Minimize screen time, instead read uplifting material.
- Get to bed early for 8-9 hours sleep.
Mental
It’s been said that it’s hard to be happy if you refuse to throw away the things that make you sad, but how much of the time do we get stuck in the past, reliving the same old miseries? Take some quiet time to look at your thoughts and emotions. Are they mostly happy and optimistic or are you mostly recycling the same worries, doubts, and regrets? Wayne Dyer said, “Progress and growth are impossible if you always do things the way you’ve always done them”. Isn’t it time for a change, a mental cleanse?
Letting go of old mental habits is often more difficult than cleaning out the closet. We get attached to emotions even when they are painful. Holding on to things is like holding your breath, it becomes uncomfortable. We have to learn to let go, making space for the opportunities the next breath will bring. As the English novelist George Eliot said, “Wear a smile and have friends, wear a scowl and have wrinkles.”
Here’s a simple exercise to help you release what no longer serves you. It is best done with eyes closed but it will also work with eyes open.
Again, be aware of what’s happening in your mind, your thoughts, any emotions
What are you feeling?
Is there any sadness, frustration, guilt, confusion, something else?
These thoughts and emotions block the free flow of love and joy in your life
When we try to process our emotions at the level of the mind, we often end up creating more chaos. It’s much easier to process them at the level of the body.
Bring your awareness into your body.
Be aware of any sensations or discomfort in your body.
Now breathe into those sensations, slow steady breaths.
Imagine that you’re breathing love and light into the discomfort.
As you exhale, allow it to fade effortlessly away.
Notice how the mental emotion too, is starting to fade.
You can do this any time, to cleanse old emotions or if you find yourself becoming attached to a new emotion.
Most of the time, we look outside for our happiness, for our fulfillment and for our joy. We look to possessions to fulfill us. We search outside for our happiness and peace when really, we have lost it inside.
The reason that these external things don’t bring happiness is that, although we may have some new clothes, they are still being worn by the same person. We may be driving a new car, but the driver is the same. If we want lasting happiness, we have to look within. This takes us to our final level.
Spiritual
Our spiritual journey is one of cleansing the individual soul or Jiva. This is the aspect of the soul that carries our karma, manifesting as memories and desires. This doesn’t mean we should eliminate all memories and desires but that they should align and support our true purpose.
There is a beautiful story of a temple in Thailand where for years people worshipped what they thought was a clay statue of the Buddha. One day, one of the workers who was cleaning the statue accidentally dislodged some of the clay and discovered that beneath inches of tightly-packed clay, the statue was actually solid gold. Centuries before, to hide it from invading looters, the monks had covered the Golden Buddha with clay. Those who knew its true form had fled the invasion and its true identity was forgotten. All worshippers thereafter assumed the image was one of clay, until the day, hundreds of years later, the pure gold core was discovered. Unfortunately, most of us have allowed our true identity to be covered over and forgotten. Our spiritual journey is to remove the clay revealing the magnificent Being inside.
Your breath can never be in the future or past, it’s always in the present.
3 Tips for Communicating Your Mental Health Needs with a Loved One
By: Lena Schmidt

As the world continues to face the pandemic of COVID-19, political unrest and domestic chaos, as you do your part to stay safe and protect each other, you may find yourself feeling a range of emotions. While your physical safety is of utmost importance, the facts of unemployment, financial instability, personal loss of a loved one, appalling images across social media, and general uncertainty can all wreak havoc on your mental well-being. You may be experiencing solitude, loneliness, and fear. These changes can lead to changes in your ability to feel prepared to cope with life.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), mental health is, “a state of well-being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community.” Living through a global health crisis of this proportion is bound to have an impact on our mental health. That being said, we will each have unique experiences—some negative, some positive—based on our intersectional identities. Where you live, your religion, race, gender identity, sexual orientation, age, and many other factors, and how these aspects of your identity interplay, play a role in how you will experience life during this time.
Whatever your current situation or mental state, it’s possible you have reached a point in which you have decided to intentionally focus on your mental health needs. Your well-being is paramount. Mental health is sometimes a matter of taking some time for yourself to relax and rejuvenate; mental health is sometimes a matter of crisis intervention, a matter of life or death.
Managing mental health is a life-long practice. Healthy communication, too, is a life-long practice. Your mental health needs change (sometimes daily!); therefore, your communication about them will be ongoing. You may make the choice to share your needs with a loved one or seek the help of a trained professional. Expressing your needs for well-being will most likely not be a one-time discussion. Considering the shame and stigma sometimes surrounding mental health and well-being, it takes immense courage and vulnerability to express your experience. Even considering letting someone in on your struggles, pain, or progress, is a huge win.
Before you go blasting your struggles for all to see on social media, consider who may be the best, safest, and most significant person with whom to share your mental health needs. Who is a loved one you trust? Why does this person need to know what’s going on with you? What is it about this person that invites your vulnerability? Does this person deserve to know what’s going on with you? Your story is sacred, and though you may not always receive the support and help you desire, it is important to consider why you want to share and what exactly you want to communicate.
1. Set a Clear Intention
As you prepare to share your experience with a trusted loved one, consider your reasons for sharing.
- Are you disclosing this private information because you want to connect?
- Are you revealing something about yourself because you want to apologize or make amends for your behavior?
- Are you hoping to receive some help from this person?
When you get clear about your purpose, your words will be clearer. When your words are clearer, you are more likely to be better understood and to have your needs met.
It can be helpful to share your intention at the outset of the conversation. Let your loved one in on the reason you have chosen to bring this up at this time. You may say, “I just needed to get this off my chest; it was eating me up inside” or “I am feeling alone in this and I wanted someone to know” or “I have something going on that I think I need some help with.” Sharing a secret, such as a mental health challenge, can have lasting health benefits. Once you are clear on your intentions, prepare yourself with calming techniques such as restorative yoga, breathwork, or a grounding walk around the block.
2. Make a Specific Ask
As you prepare for your conversation, brush up on how to effectively use nonviolent communication (NVC). This technique for open dialogue, in which you listen empathetically and express yourself honestly, is also called conscious communication. Essentially, you should decide what you truly think would help you during this time and ask for it clearly. If appropriate, share what you are already doing to take responsibility for your mental health. Let them know what help you have already sought, what you are currently working on, what resources have you already used, or are planning to use.
Though you may be asking for something from your loved one, use “I” statements to communicate your needs, desires, or the boundaries you are expressing. If possible, differentiate between needs and desires. You may say, “I am experiencing a lot of loneliness lately. Would you be willing to talk on the phone with me more often? Would a phone call three times a week work for you?” or “I notice I’m feeling irritated a lot more lately. Would you mind if I spend an hour each morning doing my own thing while you watch the kids?” or “I’m feeling unsettled and I don’t know what to do. I’m wondering if you could help me brainstorm healthy ways to cope for when I feel overwhelmed.”
And finally, as much as possible, release expectations that your specific request will be met. You might prepare your ask and wish it to turn out a certain way, but the person you share with cannot always meet your needs.
3. Let Go of Expectations
Though you are welcome to state your needs, no one is required to meet them. You may make a mindful ask of someone else but, ultimately, you are responsible for taking care of yourself.
Though it may sound counterproductive, as you prepare to share your mental health needs, also prepare non-attachment to the outcome. If you have hurt the person you are sharing with in some way, it is very possible that they, and you, will have their own reactions, emotions, and needs to contend with. This is to be expected, and if possible, planned for. Allow the person you have shared with time to process what you have said, to do their own research, and to come back to your discussion later. You may say, “I realize what I have asked for is a lot. Let me know when you are ready to talk about this again, okay?” or “I know it may sound scary that I am asking for more space. I appreciate you considering doing this for me.”
You may believe this person can be of some help to you, and they very well may be, but it’s also possible that they do not know how or cannot help you in the ways you seek. It’s possible they will come back to you with a counteroffer: “Thanks for sharing that with me. I am managing my own well-being right now and although I want to be there for you, I cannot commit to talking on the phone three times a week. Would once a week be acceptable to you?” or “I can tell you have been irritated lately, and I support you having time for yourself, but mornings are really busy for me with work right now. Do you think I could watch the kids in the afternoon for an hour while you have time to yourself instead?”
Of course, if someone meets your vulnerability only with dismissal, judgment, or extreme defensiveness, or if their counter-terms are unacceptable to you, remove yourself from the situation and seek help elsewhere. Perhaps there is a trusted friend or confidant who would be better suited to listening to you. Some other resources include the National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) and the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255). There are also local resources in your area for mental health support, many of which are low-cost or free.
Mental health and well-being are essential aspects of life. During this time, and always, remember that you are not alone. It takes bravery and strength to create and maintain boundaries, to make changes to long-held relationship patterns, and to ask for help. It can be challenging to share of yourself. And as author Glennon Doyle says, “You can do hard things.”






































